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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
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Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
- Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
- If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t "be friends". A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
- Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
- Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
- The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of
children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? - Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
- Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
- Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
- You cannot change a man’s behaviour.* Change comes from within.
- Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job.
- Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
- Never let a man define who you are.
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Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
- A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
- All men are NOT dogs.
- You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.
- You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
- You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.. a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.. look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
- Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
- Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
- Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man.
- Share this with other women and men (just so they know)… You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
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They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
April 21, 2008
What OPRAH Had to Say About Men
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Great!
Comment by Theresa — April 21, 2008 @ 9:00 am
SCARYYYYY!!!!!!!! wow, totally a scary woman if all this attitude of woman has. But, it’s a little bet interesting to deal with. Mura man nka firewall then anti-virus ang woman, hehheee… try daw nto og butang og trojan. joke lng cath, heheheee… nice post…. just past by for backlinks…
Comment by cathchix — April 22, 2008 @ 10:44 am